Shaykh Kamaluddin DB 14 July 2015

14 July 2015 shaykh kamaluddin db
(ladies bayan)

Take every child as a gift from Allah swt . You should pray to have 2 daughters so that u can do amal on hadith and enter jannah from that path. Even if u hve 7 daughters and 8th one is also a daughter , u shud be happy to have her too . Cuz every gift from your beloved Allah is a gift. So u shud be happy that He gifted u , no matter it's a son or daughter .

- Azan in right ear, iqamah in left ear . Father should recite the azaan first . And then have someone else from saaliheen to recite . This is bonding experience for father . He will realise
- Tehneek from pious person .
- keep a good name . Which is beloved to Allah swt . Anbiyaa , sahaaba , awliyaa. Name which is rare and unique , u shhd be very sure that it's meaning is appropriate. Pure wholesome name .
- aqeeqa on 7th day. Feast amongst close relatives , share meet with the poor ppl . Spread joy amongst less fortunate ppl .

-Wudhu , dhikr , dua while nursing . Bonding experience .

- 0-2 years -  play Quran . Lullabies which have Allah's name . Audio recitations efc. By the age 2, he should hve listen to Allah swt's name  thousands to time . Baby shud listen to Quran durrod Allah's Name . Mohammad saw 'a name . It has lot of Barakah . Just hearung the name .

- 7 years old. Let ur child play till the age of 7. But still u can do
Lot of tarbeat. Ayats of Quran, other names of Allah . Hadith. They can also memorise Quran at this small age. Child will develop feelings at this age . By 7 they have all the love and attachment . By 7 they should be accomplished in the love of Allah swt and rasoolullah Sallallahu’alaihi wasallam . He should feel Allah by the age of 7. The most useful tool is story Books. So develop feelings inside him for Allah and all anbiyaa and sahaaba karaam.

Introduce the positive feelings at this age. But don't talk abt fire of jahannum, and grave etc . Share all positive stories . Introduce introductory concept of things which are wrong . But put love of Allah first in her heart. By age 7 he shud hve deep feelings . Strong feelings of attachment with Allah and rasoolullah Sallallahu’alaihi wasallam . And desire to please them

After 7- try to make them obey and pray. They shud show and express this love for Allah swt they hve inside them.
Correct Age brackets
1)0-2
2)2-7
3)after 7